Walking In Recovery, llc.

Professional Mentoring/Recovery Coaching Services

Walking In Recovery, llc.

Professional Mentoring/Coaching Services.




You don't have to walk the path alone. Let us be your guide - leading to a life of recovery and redemption from sexual sin, alcohol/drugs, or any other number of struggles.

Mentoring You To Freedom

Guided Road To Recovery

Affordable Mentoring

No Travel Required

We have multiple options for you to begin your journey of freedom.  Open share groups, daily accountibilty, individual one-on-one mentoring, and a Legal Package for those going through the legal system.

We have over 30 years plus of recovery behind us.  Led recovery ministires, worked beside multiple counseling groups and churches. We have developed plans for numerous struggles and life issues.

We mentor men and women from around the world through our secure and private virtual meeting rooms, by phone, or in-person.

About Your Mentor/Recovery Coach

Randy began his recovery journey over 36 years ago from alcohol and drugs.  While he was experiencing freedom from the bondage of alcohol and drugs, he had another problem that continued to destroy his life, which was a sexual addiction.  He was sexually abused as a child, struggled with a lifetime of pornography and acting out.  Eventually, hitting his bottom in the area of sexual purity around 19 years ago. He destroyed his life, family, career, and many people around him.  It was there, in that despair that he had gone as far as he could on his own and reached out for help.  Since then, he's been set on a path of restoration and healing.  Randy has led and gone through many recovery groups such as MOSOP, Every Man's Battle, SLAA, NA, AA, SAA, Celebrate Recovery, as well as becoming a Certified Sexual Integrity Mentor through Bravehearts. God has done mighty things in and through him and his wife Jan.  They led a successful recovery ministry, and worked with couples and individuals who were at their lowest of lows.    

As you know life can be extremely messy and no individual or family is exempt from effects of a broken world.  One thing they know and have experienced over and over, is that there is HOPE!  They have been able to have a front row seat to watch God do miraculous things in the lives of others!

Josh Spurlock, MA, LPC | Founder of MyCounselor.Online (Offices in Centennial Colorado : Springfield, Kansas City, Columbia, and Branson Missouri  

'As a professional counselor having reliable places to refer individuals for the support they need to succeed is crucial. Over the last 10 years, I have referred dozens of individuals to support services lead by Randy & Jan Cotham and have consistently seen great results. I would wholeheartedly recommend their services both to those looking for a reliable place to refer as well as to individuals seeking help.'

Jason - (Missouri)

Randy has been a cornerstone in my my sexual addiction recovery. Through Celebrate Recovery and Randy’s personal mentorship in my recovery success, I am free from the bondage of sexual sin. He is constant in his directing me towards my identity in Jesus Christ, and reminds me that my past is not what defines my present. He speaks truth, even when it is uncomfortable and does so in a loving manner. My marriage would have been lost with out his guidance, encouragement, accountability and honesty. I love him dearly and thank God for him and Jan daily.

Joe & Rachel (Missouri)

Randy and Jan were a great help to us in terms of availability, wisdom, and loving truth. They gave us tools to learn better communication that have had a very positive impact on our marriage! More importantly, they built a relationship with both of us, checking-in often to help us grow and keep us accountable. We feel truly blessed that the Lord placed them in our lives

Deron Smith, Dean of Vocation and Spiritual Formation - Lipscomb University (Nashville Tennesee)

Randy and Jan have each experienced the pain and hardship of life when it falls apart, and the healing and joy of life when God begins putting it back together. They are walking the road to recovery and are tremendously encouraging and wise companions for the journeys of others, sometimes with gentle grace and other times with firm challenge. I have seen the Holy Spirit's transforming power at work through the Cothams in the lives of others, as they have often mentored people from a place of hopelessness to one of lasting change. I recommend them highly!

AJ Fuhrman Campus Pastor – The Crossings (Keokuk, Iowa)

Randy has a deep passion to walk with those and care for those who are going through recovery.  He is willing to do the hard work alongside those who are working on their recovery.  He is knowledgable about the process and truly love people. 

Shaun Lotter MA, LPC– MyCounselor.Online (Springfield, Missouri)

Our practice first started working with Randy in 2011, regularly referring clients to him who were dealing with sexual addictions.  He was responsible for facilitating our local Celebrate Recovery group.  While the Celebrate Recovery name is well known, as a practice, it is important to us who is leading the program, as leadership makes all the difference. Randy formed an essential and effective part of recovery and restoration for the individuals and couples we serve.  He took a very active role in mentoring and guiding couples through the storm of sexual addiction into real recovery.  Individuals who engaged with him recovered more quickly and more consistently than individuals without this important support.  We are thrilled he is continuing the work in helping individuals and couples gain victory by setting up the Walking in Recovery resource.  Our practice will be referring clients to his ministry and we highly recommend other counseling practices dealing with sexual addictions to use Randy as a resource. 


Professional Mentoring/Coaching 


Many individuals are blessed by giving and that is their ministry.  If you feel led to give to assist others in their recovery journey by donating funds for scholarships, please select the Donate button below.  You can set up an option of a one-time, periodically, or monthly payments.  Many individuals have a hard time paying for the help that is needed to get through this difficuilt time, please assist if you are led to give.  If you wish to remain anonymous, please send to 1008 Main St. Carthage, IL 62321 


Individual Legal System Professional Mentoring - $349 per month (monthly program) - Randy has worked with multiple individuals who have been charged with a sexual crime, alcohol/drugs, or an any other struggle that results in criminal charges.  He will not only work with the client through a recovery process, but will give encouragement and information on what to expect during the entire process.  For the law firm, he will produce a letter of honest recommendation to the judge or prosecuting attorney based on the clients work in recovery.  He can also work with the law firm to be available to attend the trial or sentencing hearing to go before the judge.  Due to Randy's experience in going through the system and the training and working with numerous individuals, he is more than qualified to assist the client and law firm in this difficult time.

Legal System Package

Complete One - On - One Professional Mentoring - $295 per month (monthly program) - You will be working with Randy, a professional Certified Recovery Coach/Mentor.  He will be working an in-depth recovery program with you.  Not only will you have weekly 55 minute sessions working through your recovery program, but he work with you on a solid accountabilty plan where he will be staying in contact seven days a week.  With this package, you can jump into any open share groups that have openings.  He can also set up couple sessions or just hourly upon request.  If you are not financially able to pay the monthly fee, please contact us anyway and we will see if we can work out something to assist you.

Additional Packages

Open Share Recovery Groups - $35 per month - These weekly group meetings are an important part of your recovery.  Community is a vital part of you knowing that you are not alone in this journey and there are others out there that struggle with the same things.  They are gender-specific online groups in which you are able to share in a safe environment

Daily Accountability & Connection - $45 per month - With this package, you will receive daily communication from me in the form of a encouragement or exortation text.  You will also be required to contact me daily, letting me know that you are 'clean' that day from the issue you are recoverying from.  This level of accountability is extremely important in your recovery

Accountability & Group Session Package- $75 per month - This is combination of the Open Share Groups and the Daily Accountability listed above.

Level One Mentoring Package - $145 per month (Group Sessions, Daily Accountibility and One Mentoring Session)

Level Two Mentoring Package - $195 per month (Group Sessions, Daily Accountibility and 2 Mentoring Sessions)

Level Three Mentoring Package - $245 per month (Group Sessions, Daily Accountibility and 3 Mentoring Sessions)

What is a Recovery Action Plan?  We developed this tool to assist people we worked with to get a plan going immediately when they step into recovery.  It has terms like Bottom Lines, Secondary Bottom Lines (triggers or high risk behaviors), Thought Stoppers, Thought Changers, and Plans of Action.  It will have instructions, samples of different struggles, and a blank copy for you to fill out one for yourself.  This is just one tool of many that is available when you work with us and it alone is not enough to walk in freedom from the struggles that have kept you in bondage.  Please fill out the information below to receive a copy of the Recovery Action Plan, ask us any other questions or wish for us to contact you to set up a free consultation sesssion.

Free Copy of the Recovery Action Plan



Carthage, IL 62321